Guiding Your Children Plan Their Summer

April 27, 2010 by Danny Houston · 2 Comments
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Finally, school is out for the summer! Your kids are excited and happy, but you may be wondering how you are going to entertain them all summer. This can be a bit overwhelming to many parents.

If your kids are like mine, they are glad to have a break in being in class all day and feel empowered to do whatever they want all summer. On the other hand, you may feel pressured to keep them busy all summer.

It is great for you to plan activities that will allow children to learn while having fun. Just remember to work in some time for them to have free play time too.

So what should independent play time look like? This may depend on the age of your children, as well as how independent they already are. The younger the child, the more closely you'll want to want to supervise them during their 'independent' play time. Your older kids, on the other hand, will enjoy having some alone time. They can entertain themselves alone in their room or in the yard, and you'll still be just a holler away.

Be sure to let your kids help decide how days will be spent. A good thing to do is to have a couple of options ready and let them choose one for the day.

Your kids are more likely to actively participate in the day's activities if they played a role in selecting the activity.

On some days, you and your kids will both enjoy choosing from a few different options. On other days, you may not be able to do this. There are likely to be days in which you don't have enough flexibility to let the children make the decision. This is not a problem. Just be very clear with your kids as to whether or not there are choices for the day.

By alternating between planned activities, free play time, and independent time, you'll not only give your kids a great summer, but you'll give yourself a few breaks here and there as well!

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Sibling Fight As A Common Part Of Growing Up

April 21, 2010 by Mara Jones · Leave a Comment
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Being raised in a family will inevitably bring about a touch of sibling rivalry. It is all just a part of the growing up process. It has always been the case since the beginning of time, and I guess it will never change.

How many people have heard of passive parenting? Well maybe this can stop the fighting between siblings! Well this is how passive parenting works, see what you think!

We all know that kids love to tell over their brothers or sisters, just to try and get them into trouble. It happens in every family in the world. Tne way to try to make things a little easier is to try to get a few ground rules set. It is okay to inform on your siblings if they are intentionally being destructive in the house or with your property, or if they are hurting you for no reason, but if they keep trying to tell over them for something insignificant, then tell them off instead.

Instead of always sorting out their problems all the time, occasionally why not just say something along the lines of "wow that must really annoy you" do not always fix the problem but offer a statement instead,

If they keep coming back with the same complaint, then you keep giving them the same answer. This will annoy them at first, but they will soon realise that perhaps they can sort it out for themselves. This may not always work, but should work some of the time.

Get you kids to take some responsibilities themselves and set their own house rules. It is important for them to try to sort out their own problems if they can do so.

If they have separate bedrooms, then they must ask first before entering somebody else's room.

Making sure that siblings can sort out their own problems can make them grow up to be a more confident person, because after all sibling rivalry is always going to be there.

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