What Is Open Adoption?

February 24, 2009 by brwilson · Leave a Comment
Filed under: Adoption 

A term you may have heard if you have been researching adoption is open adoption  Basically, and open adoption means that the parent who is giving a child up for adoption will have some part in the child's life, even if they are not caring for the child on a full-time basis.

Open adoption is an issue that can provoke strong feelings among prospective adoptive parents.  Many adoptive parents would prefer that the child that they adopt has little or no contact with their birth parents.  Feelings like this often stem from insecurity, but also are out of genuine love and concern for the child and their well-being.  Some adoptive parents feel that allowing the birth parents to have a role in the raising of the child may cause some confusion for the child. In some cases it may be dangerous for the child to have contact with their birth parents.

While there are many differing opinions on this subject, some families have managed to successfully manage and open adoption.  Of course in cases of extreme abuse, where the parents were found to be unfit or dangerous to the child, and open adoption situation is not likely possible.  Often the most common scenario where open adoption works well is when the birth mother is a young teenager and simply cannot look after a child.  It's not that she is an unfit mother, but simply is not prepared for such a responsibility.  In cases like this, the adoptive parents may choose to allow the birth mother to see the child from time to time and take part in special occasions like birthdays and other special events.

No matter you opinion on the subject, if you are seeking an adoption and want more information about open adoptions, it's important to seek counsel from a professional familiar with these specific situations.

Please check out the section of our website providing adoption resources. Most of these resources are free.

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Effects of The Economy on Foster Care and Childrens Services

February 19, 2009 by brwilson · Leave a Comment
Filed under: Foster Care, The Economy 

While the following will discuss some specifics happening in Arizona, I have seen similar issues in California and I suspect the same in states across the country. Instead of looking at large scale waste to cut budgets, some agencies are slashing core services in an apparent attempt to outrage the public.

The Arizona Republic published an article on Wednesday Feb. 18, 2009 titled Foster families, disabled hit by budget cuts. The Department of Economic Security announced that there were budget cuts that would affect foster families and the developmentally disabled. Reimbursements will be cut by 20%. The Arizona legislature stated that, each agency was given an opportunity to decide, in general, where to slash spending. In the case of DES, officials were told to find nearly $61.7 million anywhere in the budget, plus cut employee expenses another $5.1 million.

Senate Majority Whip Pam Gorman, R-Anthem, called it "a political stunt," saying the agency was "getting rid of the things that everybody would consider last."

Sen. Ron Gould, R-Lake Havasu City, said "They're cutting the things they think will gin up support for their agency in the public rather than making the smart or the wise cut,".

DES spokeswoman Liz Barker denied that cuts were being made with an eye on publicity.

How will these budget cuts affect Arizona Children? AZFamily.com Claudia Rivero reports how the budget cuts will affect thousands of Arizona Children.

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I believe that it is necessary to tighten our belts. I believe that we need to reduce spending. I believe there are those who should not be receiving benefits and subsidies. I also believe that there is enough government waste and pork that can be cut that does not affect the children in our country. I say lets go after the fraud and other waste and not punish children for the mistakes of adults. What do you believe?


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